Thursday, September 27, 2012

I'm not in the mood to argue

So...we've come to an end of our 3 months of TTC naturally. AF showed up in the middle of the night tonight. For the first time, I really lay awake in bed unable to sleep wondering if we will ever be lucky enough to have a child, let alone the multiple children that we want.

Therefore, this morning, I'm tired...exhausted really, both emotionally and physically.

I called the RE this morning, assuming that we would jump right into an IUI, but not the case, the front desk person said that I needed to have a follow up consultation to set a plan rather than scheduling the appointments for an IUI.

I didn't have the energy to argue, they are hard to deal with in the first place. My consultation appointment will be October 15, just late enough to miss ovulation entirely even in a natural cycle.

So I guess it will be 4 months of TTC naturally rather than 3 because of their dumbass practice.

The only positive is that it gave me the time to prepare my boss and co-workers rather than springing on them a day off last minute.


  1. I'm so sorry Michelle. Is there a cancellation list they can put you on? Hugs from here!

  2. Sorry to hear your natural cycles haven't worked, but I am excited to hear you are going to be trying IUIs. I know I have said it before, but we see the same doctor and I feel your pain about his staff.:( Good Luck!

  3. Sorry to hear that the past 3 months haven't worked. Wishing you luck for this one extra month of trying naturally. I am sure it is frustrating to have to wait a whole month more than you had hoped.

  4. How ridiculous when they have all your information already, just hoping they won't charge you again. It's exhausting to deal with and I don't blame you for not having the energy to argue about it.

  5. Having to wait for appointments which don't coincide well with the timing of a cycle is one of the most frustrating things about this madness. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I am rooting for you every day.

  6. Ugh, that sucks when the clinic doesn't have their shit together. Hang in there hon - this WILL happen for you.

  7. Ugh!!!!! I don't know why this just showed up in my reader. That is bs. They have all your info on file - what a piss off!!!

    Fingers crossed for this being the natural cycle you need and that maybe you can get in before the 15th.


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